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Are
Your Kids Driving You Nuts? |
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| Section
I
The Lies: Mission Impossible
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| Chapter 1: |
Parenting Myths,
Falsehoods and Lies ... Good parents raise good
kids; bad parents raise bad kids. |
| Chapter 2: |
Freedom of Choice
... Must man be free to choose, or should he be forced
to do what's right? |
| Chapter 3: |
Mission Impossible
... Can parents always be in control of their children? |
Section II
A Few Devastating Parent Traps!
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| Chapter 4: |
What is a Parent
Trap? ... The harder you try, the harder you
can fall. |
| Chapter 5: |
The Control Trap
... The greatest pitfall and misconception parents have. |
| Chapter 6: |
The Trap of Anger
... The key to understanding why we get angry. |
| Chapter 7: |
The Trap of Rage
... What is the Rage Gauge? |
| Chapter 8: |
The Traps of Arguing
and Contention ... How do you stop the contention
and arguing in your home? |
| Chapter 9: |
The Traps of Lying
and Inconsistency ... Are you lying to your children? |
| Chapter 10: |
The Traps of Being
Critical and Unforgiving ... Discounting, shaming
and rejection. |
Chapter 11:
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The Teenage Retirement
Trap ... How are you retiring your children? |
| Chapter 12: |
The Rescuing Trap
... How kids are set up to be at high risk for drug abuse
and suicide. |
| Chapter 13: |
The Lecturing and
Insight Traps ... Boring! Don't they already
know 99% of what you'll say? |
| Chapter 14: |
The Nagging Trap
... Kids donĄ¯t see nagging as counsel or support. |
| Chapter 15: |
The Traps of Conditional
Love and Acceptance ... I will only love you
if you do what I want. |
| Chapter 16: |
The Parental Disunity
Trap ... A house divided against itself cannot
stand. |
| Chapter 17: |
The Quick-Fix Trap
and Making Exceptions ... Avoiding the real problem. |
| Chapter 18: |
The Trap of Misusing
Rewards and Punishments ... Without a planĄWithout
a clue. |
| Chapter 19: |
The Trap of Excessive
Punishment ... The more you punish, the less
effective it becomes. |
| Chapter 20: |
The Trap of Favoritism
... The temptation to love the easiest one more
than the difficult one. |
| Chapter 21: |
The Surrogate Spouse
Trap ... Emotional Incest. |
| Chapter 22: |
The Scapegoat Trap
... Finding a safe place to vent our negative emotions. |
| Chapter 23: |
The Traps of Guilt,
Unrealistic Expectations and Perfectionism ...
The formula for shaming and failure. |
| Chapter 24: |
The Trap of Button-Pushing
and Overreacting ... Are the kids punching your
hot buttons? |
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Section 3
Are You a Healthy or Toxic Parent?
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| Chapter 25: |
Toxic Parents: Undisciplined
Disciplinarians |
| Chapter 26: |
Escaping the Parent
Traps |
| Chapter 27: |
The Healthy Parent
and Functional Family |
| Chapter 28: |
Peace and Joy in
Letting Go |
| Chapter 29: |
The Parables |
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